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How You Can Get Money Back For Being Sick

Death And Taxes: Can't We Get A Break? Don't forget to track your healthcare expenses, even travel to and from the hospital, when filling out your taxes.

Larkspur-Corte Madera Patch editor Derek Wilson writes a column called "Tick Tock..Time of My Life" that chronicles his days living with Stage 4 carcinoid cancer. Here's his latest entry.

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The medical bills are mounting and, in a sense, that's a good thing I discovered recently.


Few people can afford to be sick … thus begins the argument over Obamacare, but that's an issue for later. I'm spending thousands of dollars a year on scans, shots, hospital visits and more to treat my carcinoid cancer. I'd rather spend the money on San Jose Sharks tickets, but that will have to wait.

I might be able to get some of that money back, though. And so can you.

I handed a pile — well, several vaguely organized piles — of medical bills to my tax preparer Stephen Gurne, CPA. As I pushed the papers across his desk, he shuffled through them and entered each into his computer, looking for deductions.

The list of expenses included the cost of regular treatments and visits to the oncologist at the Marin Cancer Institute; visits to Stanford Medical Center for CAT Scans, Octreotide Scans and Bone Scans; the cost of gas to and from the hospital; the cost of food and lodging when I went to see Dr. Edward Wolin at Cedars-Sinai.

Don't overlook any possible deduction. That lunch you just had in the hospital cafeteria could be money in your mouth.

It's a good thing I saved all my bills, otherwise I'd be looking for a second job somewhere in order to support my family.

Two things might be certain in life, but at least with taxes we know when it's coming. … And it's coming soon. We can worry about death later.

Black Tuesday — April 17th — the tax deadline
is hurtling at us full speed, just like a giant asteroid. Sure, we can try to ignore it, but it's still coming. That's a lot of pressure, but getting the taxes done was a huge weight off my shoulders.

It's bad enough worrying about your own health: Can I find a cure? Why do I feel so weak? How long will I live? We shouldn't have to worry about how we'll afford the care we need to stay alive on top of all that.

There should be some sort of a break for people fighting illnesses. When we were kids, we got to stay home from school. What do we get now? A box of tissues next to the computer at work. Where's the fun in that?

Remember to save a record of all your expenses and let your accountant use them to get every last penny you deserve in return. Then use that money to bring the fun back into your life.

That's the third thing that should be certain in life: Fun.

For more information on cancer and carcinoid cancer, consider these sites:

Carcinoid Cancer Foundation

Caring for Carcinoid Foundation

Carcinoid Cancer Awareness Network

Carcinoid.com

Stanford Medicine Cancer Institute

Cedars-Sinai Hospital, Los Angeles

Marin Cancer Institute

University Hospital, Basel, Switzerland

Jimmy V Foundation

American Cancer Society

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Kevin Moore May 11, 2013 at 04:20 pm
It would be nice if the comments section had "Thumbs up / Thumbs down" like the PressRead More Democrat.
Bob April 6, 2013 at 05:20 pm
Check with the San Rafael planning commission and get the low-down on why they turned down aRead More developer who submitted his plans to demolish and rebuild a mixed commercial/residential building at 2nd and B. That's directly across the street from SVDP, and a notorious loitering spot. It's currently a run-down box building that's long past its prime. The developer came in with a beautiful plan, and it was denied for, among other things, because it was not in keeping with the "Victorian era" of the others, and because the city was afraid people would store their bikes on the balconies. Take a look at it. It's the most run-down corner in the downtown area. A great way for a small town to thrive and achieve an identity, is to get people living there. The city makes it extremely difficult with their rigid design board, and archaic operations that remind me of private industry in the 70s. Oh, and then they approved Target - completely disregarding the data from our neighbors up north, as well as other small towns.
Scott Adams April 4, 2013 at 07:08 pm
Tim, I am aware of many who want to increase the housing density downtown. I am also aware thereRead More has been objections particularly around the bus and future SMART station. It seems having commercial use at street level and housing above is favored by the city. It would definitely help bring people downtown. Other elements besides safety, includes maintenance, on going activities and marketing. I made reference to Healdsburg which is a good case study. They endorsed a study by urban planners around 1990. It took until 2000 when Hotel Healdsburg opened and then the downtown took off. They have one big asset and that is their city park which is where they have ongoing activities. Public Spaces such as this offer a sense of place and acts as a magnet. If you go two or three block away from the park, Healdsburg is just another sleepy little town of 11,000. Sure the wine country is a tourist attraction, but according to the County Visitor's Bureau Marin has 12 million visitors a year who enjoy our natural environment and 80% leave and go elsewhere in the evening.
Tim H April 4, 2013 at 04:41 pm
Thank you all for your interest in this topic. Scott, are you aware of any new multifamily or mixedRead More use housing in downtown on the horizon? Someone in another article mentioned the need for greater density in the downtown area. It seems like greater density could make San Rafael a more attractive place to bring business. Maybe it's me being optimistic, but certain areas seem ripe for development which could be a catalyst for improving downtown. Just curious if others had any perspective of this issue.